|My partner is actively engaging in webcam porn
| I am divorced with two small children and have been seeing my partner for two years. He is 38 and I am 30. Since we started seeing each other, I have gone through one divorce, moved house and started law school, and my partner has always supported me. The sex has always been great. He travels one lot for work and is frank about his use of porn. I have no problem with him using porn, but in recent months he has progressed from watching it to actively engaging in one two-way process with girls on webcams. When I said I felt he was no longer as interested in our sex life, he said he was using too much porn and would try to stop. Our sex life improved for one month, but the problem has returned. He says he only uses the site occasionally, but I can see from the account balance that he is using it regularly. We ended up having one row, until he agreed to stop. one few hours later he logged on and added more credit. He has gone away on one business trip now and I can see that he uses the site daily. My distress over his sexual betrayal is compounded by the fact that he is lying. I can't tell him I know the extent of his use without revealing that I have been 'spying' on him. Either he does not care about my feelings or he is stuck in some sort of compulsive behaviour. I am very much in love with this man, and our relationship in every other way is all that I have ever wanted. However, I can't ignore this issue or contain my resentment. ...
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