To change this situation, women can improve their technique by getting familiar to the anatomy of the male genital, knowing that there are different sizes and shapes and every one is unique. To start, they have to squeeze the penis gently but firmly, applying pressure and exploring every square inch of his genital surface area. The woman has to let the man know she’s enjoying what she’s doing and isn’t afraid, disgusted or ashamed. The testicles also have to be explored, as the top of the penis head, using smooth movements.

After, she can bring her fingers together and, gently, begin to stroke his penis, until it starts to drip pre-seminal fluid. It’s also recommended the use of a good quality lubricant, that has to be warmed before putted in his genitals. While masturbating him, she can use both hands alternately, to so doing rhythmically back and forth movements. She also can use one hand to stroke him and the other to massage his testicles, as lightly pull on the pubic hair sprouting from his testicles, to cause new sensations.

Tighten the thumb and forefinger around the base of the penis, while pressing down on the testicles, will cut off the blood and act like a penis ring, helping the woman to steady his genital in her hand. With the use of the lubricant she can stroke his penis with more intensity. During male masturbation , as the woman perceives that the man’s orgasm draws near, she can explore one of his erogenous zones, the perineum, located between the testicles and the anus, by pressing it gently and firmly, what will give him such intense pleasure.